If She is Crying, You Did Something Wrong

Jess' Thoughts
9.999 times out of 10: If you're with your girlfriend, and you upset her, and she starts crying, it means you did something wrong. Some guys like to get defensive and spend a stupid amount of time trying to say how they didn't even do anything. Some guys get angry when their girlfriends cry because they don't understand what to do, since most guys don't express their emotion and therefore don't understand why girls express emotion in the form of tears. If your girlfriend is crying and she says you upset her, it does not matter if you think she should not be crying or if you feel you did not do anything wrong. Just tell her you care about her/love her and that you're sorry for hurting her  feelings, and then hug her. That's all there is to it, folks. If you do what I just said then the issue usually ends in like 3 minutes but if you try to defend yourself then the issue could last all night.

Shelby's Thoughts
Agreed. Not to hate on the guy population, but you guys can be pretty clueless. Of course you're not going to notice when something small upsets her, because you are less sensitive, and, quite frankly, just don't understand girls. No matter what it was, it will make your life so much easier if you just apologize right away. I'm not saying to be a doormat. If this happens frequently, and you honestly cannot even see what you did wrong, consider ending the relationship. But, sometimes, we freak out over small things, and that's when we need you to be supportive, not argumentative and defensive. Usually, it's a result of us holding in our anger at the small things you've done over time, and sometimes, certain things you do or don't do can just be the last straw for us. When you argue with an angry girl, you'll do nothing but fuel her anger for hours, days, or even weeks, if it's something that significant. However, if you simply apologize and promise that you'll try to never do it again, the issue can be resolved in a matter of minutes.